At first, Steve Jobs said that during those moments he was delivering his speech, it was the closest he has ever gotten for a college graduation. He proudly said in his speech that he was not able to graduate college.
It is amusing to hear and realize to think that someone who would revolutionize the world and improve the quality of life of the people is not a college graduate. Since I was I, child, my parents would always tell me that I should study well so that I could graduate college and have a decent job. My mother was not even able to enter college due to the financial problems her family experience before that is why it is one of her aspirations to have all three of us, her children, to be a college graduate.
Both my father and my mother kept on saying that education is one of the best ways to improve our lives and the future and they keep on referencing Kim Atienza’s, “Mag-aral ng mabuti upang buhay ay bumuti.” We received a lot of reprimands and lessons from our parents. Before, I would be really upset that they would repeatedly tell us these things and up to a point that we have memorized their lines.
Yet, here we are today. My brother has finished his education, I am on my third-year, and my sister is doing well in high school. Our parents’ dreams are slowly taking place all because of their hard works and if not for them, we would not be in these fortunate lives.
Then there’s Steve Jobs. A billionaire who is not even a college graduate. In his first story, his first line was, “I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit.” Although it is not really shocking to hear anymore, it is just fascinating to realize that dropping out in their country is not that much of a fuss. If it was here in the Philippines and I was Steve Jobs, I have probably been scolded by my parents and they would probably teach me the most annoying lessons.
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Here is a fact: I just realized that Steve’s mother was not ready to have him yet and it astounded me when I heard he was already put up for adoption and he is not even born yet. At first, I was having doubts and I think of this as absurd but then I realized that her mother just wanted the best for his son. It may seem odd to some but I think her mother knows best.
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Steve went to college 17 years later and he went to an expensive school, Stanford. Education in America is really expensive and if I were Steve Jobs, I would not waste any of my time and I would surely do my best to give back to my parents. However, Steve was naïve. He was not able to see the value in studying in college.
Maybe it was at the time where Steve has realized what he really wants for himself. I am pretty sure he had a lot of realizations that made him drop out.
Also, another cool thing about studying in college in America is that they can drop out the classes they do not want to take and they can just take those interesting ones. In our university, students somewhat have a fix schedule and subjects that they should take or else, they would not be able to proceed to the next semester. I do not know but somehow, the education system is too restrictive to the students and it bounds them from experiencing different things. Steve really did enjoy the freedom he was able to acquire and he spent it on interesting classes.
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Is it not inspirational to hear that Steve Jobs, a billionaire and one of the influencers of the current generation, also experienced trials but succeeded? He said in his speech, “I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned Coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple.”
Steve experienced these things before he succeeded. Clearly, it was not fun and games at first. Since before he was born, he had to endure a lot of things. From adoption to financial problems, Steve experienced a lot of hardships but he did not give up until he was able to achieve success.
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Going back, Steve surprisingly was amused by the beauty of typography. He was just astounded by the spaces and letter combinations that are involved in typography. He even mentioned about the serif and sans serif. He described it and said, “It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.”
After 10 years, Steve Jobs and his team were designing the first Macs and he said that it was the first computer with a beautiful typography. Surprisingly, he mentioned that Windows just copied the concept of typefaces from Mac. Who would have thought that Windows would steal something from Apple? What a surprise.
For me, this was just one of the best inventions. I could not image computers with plain boring typefaces. What if Steve was not able to experience the beauty of typography? Maybe, the world would have been different. If it was not about his experiences in dropping out and dropping into typography classes, typefaces in computers would have not existed. It was then when he realized that all the dots from the past connected with the future. Every speck of memory connected with each other and made meaning to his life. Steve then said, “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.”
Steve’s second story was about love and loss. For me, these two things complement each other and that they cannot exist without the other. It is like the concept of black and white, light and dark. Where black and darkness is the absence of white and light. Truth be told, you can’t realize the importance of one side without realizing the value of the other. Life would not be valued without the concept of death, right? People fear death because they do not want to lose their lives and it was the same with what Steve Jobs had experienced.
After 10 years of working for Apple, surprisingly he was fired from his own company; fired from the company he made. I remember the movie about Steve Jobs. In a particular scene, Steve and his friends went hired some talented person to help his company flourish. At first, they were all doing great. Without a doubt, his company achieved a lot of things but it was for a while until the board of directors had decided to fire Steve Jobs.
For me, it is somewhat hilarious to hear. Who would have thought that the founder of his own company would be fired by the people he recruited? Isn’t that betrayal? Isn’t that too absurd to hear? Well, even Steve himself was surprised. “So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.” – Steve Jobs described.
After he was fired, he was just down. He somehow realized that he was again back from the start; from nothing. If I were in his position, I would have also felt the same. I could not blame him if he was just depressed. Steve Jobs was Steve Jobs though. He did not stop. On the brighter side, maybe he realized that since he had nothing, then it is possible for him to have everything. And so, he decided to start over. Everyone is probably familiar with Pixar.
Steve Jobs was one of the men behind its heartwarming and tear-jerking animations. Fun fact, Steve Jobs was also one of the people behind the production of Toy Story, the first computer-animated film.
Success has followed Steve Jobs wherever he went but it was not easy for him since he had to endure and experience a lot of heartbreaking things.
These experiences are similar to most people. The best learnings in life are those we get from being hurt. Although the concept of defeat and pain is sad to hear, people have been slowly teaching themselves that it is okay to fall; it is okay to be defeated. Why? It is because they learn a lot of things and realizations come to them. Because of these mistakes that we often commit, we become wiser individuals. We learn not be defeated again. Imagine what Steve Jobs had experienced just to achieve the success. Imagine the number of mistakes and failures he was able to endure. If not for the trials, Steve would not have even been known to the world.
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After the success NeXT and Pixar, Apple bought these companies and then he was back. “I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple’s current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.”
Even Steve himself thought of the trials as a positive side. He then said, “I’m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn’t been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith.” I think it is one of the best analogies I have heard so far. Sometimes, we have to endure unpleasing things to be pleased. We sometimes have to take the most painful injection to be healed. And sometimes, we have to survive the longest heartbreak to love again. What this world never fails to show is the beauty of bittersweet reality. No one can escape this truth because everyone has been experiencing this.
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Despite the unjust treatment of Steve, he was still him and he did not lose. He even improved because of his love and his passion. “You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.”
Steve was not even contended. He even said that a person should not stop until he finds the things that he will love the most. “If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it…Keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.”
His second story about love and loss basically states that with the absence of loss, you will know love. And in the absence of love, you will know loss. These two things that completely complement each other makes people realize that a perfect life is a life with ups and downs. Being alive and experiencing life is not all about the joy but it is also about the trials and hardships we have endured. It is also about the lessons and realizations we acquire after being down. Life has a lot to offer and it is one of our plans to survive and face whatever it may give. Steve’s second story just made me realize, there will always be a rainbow after the rain. The stronger the storm, the clearer the skies will be afterward.
The last story was about death.
Steve said something about a quote that goes like, “ If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today.” And if ever his answer would result in a “No” he would do something. If today is going to be my last day, obviously, I would make it something worth remembering for the people I am close to. I would say all the things I want to say and hug all of them thinking it would be my last. I would try to do things on my bucket list and spend the day like it is really my last.
Surely, it would be worth it. It would really be fun but depressing. It would be depressing because if the day would be treated like my last, I would probably say all my grudges and just let it all out, removing all the negative thoughts. Is not that satisfying to hear when you can just shout at the top of your lungs until you run out of air?
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For Steve, remembering that he’ll be dead is the most important tool that helped him to make big decisions in life. His speech was truly amazing when he said, “Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure — these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.”
What Steve is true. It is because when we think of things that we think we cannot conquer, in the eyes of death it becomes a small matter. It is really astounding how death defeats most things here on Earth and how it positively manipulates individuals.
Because of the existence of death, we have learned to preserve the beauty of life and we have appreciated the gift of God so much. We are afraid of death which is why we try to keep ourselves safe. It is similar to a kid who inserts a fork inside an electric socket. With this, chances are, the kid would be electrocuted, he will feel pain, and he will not do it again. These fears are really making people realize why some things should and should not be done.
We only live once. This is why we try to learn lessons about life from other people because we can only experience death once. And once we experience death, our life experiences end. Because of these things I have realized, death should be really feared but appreciated.
It has helped us to become endurable and wiser individuals. If not for death then we would not realize the profoundness of life, right?
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Going back, it was a sad news that Steve was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. “I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn’t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months.” – Steve said in his speech. At that moment, Steve was going to face the true death in no longer than three to six months. He did most of what he can do. He bid goodbye to the people he loved.
Thankfully, when the doctors scanned the tumor which was removed from his pancreas, it turned out that his pancreatic cancer was curable with surgery and during the time he delivered his speech, he was feeling fine. Unfortunately, he died in 2011. In my research, I found out that Steve’s cancer came back and that time, 2004, when he underwent a surgery, the cancer was not yet totally removed. It was really painful to hear that it seemed like it was just a false hope. Cancer was still inside him and he needed to fight a long battle. In 2009, since the cancer was spreading all over inside his body, he needed to have a liver transplant. According to some, he was not only battling cancer but also with the immune suppression after the liver transplant. As I went online to browse some photographs of Steve Jobs, the effects, such weakness and loss of weight, due to the suppression and cancer, were really clear. As time went by, his body during his talks was obviously becoming weak and he had lost a tremendous amount of weight unlike in his previous years.
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“No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life.” – Steve Jobs said. Even if we like it or not, death will always be at some point in our lives, waiting for us to meet him. The twist is, we do not know where when and how we will meet him. Most of us are probably unprepared yet to meet death. Death would be one of the least things we are expecting but when we meet him, it is when we will realize and ask ourselves, did we make the most of our lives?
Steve Jobs added that “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.” Because of this words, he made me realize that I have been spending a part of my life for other people and not for myself. Which means I have wasted some of my time. Nevertheless, I will be doing my best to savor the beauty of life and spend most of my time for my benefit and improvement. I will try to just think of my days as my last and just be carefree. I am not going to lose anything if I spend my time wisely on wise things but I am going to lose everything if I regret about not cherishing the life I was given when I am about to meet death.